Why Fans Are Convinced ’90 Day Fiancé’ Stars Alliya de Batista & Shawn Finch Have Split
What To Know
- Shawn Finch and Alliya de Batista, who married on 90 Day Fiancé Season 11, are returning to TLC for 90 Day Diaries.
- Alliya recently sparked divorce rumors after a post on Instagram.
- The couple previously maintained an open relationship.
After one of the most memorable weddings in 90 Day Fiancé history, Shawn Finch and Alliya de Batista are returning to TLC for 90 Day Diaries, but fans are worried that the couple may have split before their debut on the show.
Shawn and Alliya most recently appeared on Season 11 of 90 Day Fiancé, after making their debut on the show’s spinoff, 90 Day Fiancé: Love in Paradise. During their season on the flagship show, viewers watched as the couple got into a major fight on the day of their wedding, after Shawn’s mom got injured and Alliya was late to their ceremony. While the couple may have hit a bump on their wedding day, they ended the season by sharing that they were happily married at the Tell All.
Leading up to their official relationship status update on 90 Day Diaries, we’ve gathered everything we know about the 90 Day Fiancé Season 11 couple, including whether they are still together, if they ever went on their honeymoon, what they’ve said about their relationship post-show, and why fans believe they may have called it quits.

TLC
Are Shawn and Alliya still together?
Right now, Shawn and Alliya have not explicitly announced anything about a breakup. However, fans began to speculate that she was hinting at the end of their relationship after she made a cryptic Instagram post on November 13. She posted four photographs with Shawn (without tagging him), writing, “I’m not someone who forces things. I’ve always been and will always be completely transparent and true to myself.” She continued, “I could simply stay here posting beautiful things and happy moments, but reality is full of challenges, and many of you have witnessed them along the way. Today, I just felt like sharing a few moments here.”
“When I think about them, I think with affection. I think of friendship, of partnership in life, and of a love that has been redefined over time, a love that became more conscious, more mature, and full of admiration,” she explained. “Five years can definitely be considered a part of a lifetime, at least for me. Sometimes I’m amazed by how much I’ve learned to ‘read’ you. Just one look, a small movement, or even the rhythm of your breathing is enough for me to know when something’s going on. That kind of connection, to me, is essential in any relationship.”
She concluded her statement by writing, “I’m grateful for life and for the story we built. That’s what I hold on to. In my heart, there’s no room for resentment, bitterness, or anything heavy, only love, learning, and respect.” For some readers, her caption caused concern. Multiple followers started to question the status of their relationship, with one writing, “Are you divorced 😢 ?”
View this post on Instagram
Leading up to Alliya’s November 13 post, the couple rarely posted on social media together. On September 5, Alliya celebrated her birthday on Instagram. In the comments, she received a message from Shawn stating, “Happy Birthday, My Girl from Rio!!!! Hoping all your dreams come true!!! ❤️❤️❤️” In response, she replied, “Thank you, Darling ❤️.” It also appears that they still live together, as Alliya frequently posts at Shawn’s house.
Did Shawn and Alliya ever go on their honeymoon?
During the 90 Day Fiancé Season 11 Tell All, producers revealed that Shawn went on a honeymoon without Alliya. According to Alliya, Shawn left her for a month to go to the Dominican Republic because he was mad at her about the unfavorable way their wedding went down. At the time, Shawn also confessed that he had been intimate with other people as their open marriage allowed, while Alliya had not.
At the time, Shawn publicly apologized for his reaction on their wedding day and promised to take Alliya on the honeymoon she deserves. While it is unclear whether they went on their honeymoon or not, the couple did travel to Las Vegas for their first anniversary on July 6.
View this post on Instagram
What have Shawn and Alliya said about their relationship since 90 Day Fiancé Season 11?
During the Season 11 Tell All, Alliya shared that she and Shawn remained happily married. However, she made it clear that their relationship is not her “dream.” In that vein, Shawn shared that “the only constant in [their] relationship is change.” Reflecting on the change in her life, Alliya confessed: “I’m changing. My body’s changing. I don’t feel attracted, wanted. My love language is physical touch, and I really don’t have that.” They later confessed that they had opened their relationship so that they could be intimate with other people.
After that, their updates became more sparse. On their anniversary, Alliya wrote a sweet message to Shawn, stating, “Another year with you. So many changes, so many stories. Thank you for every beautiful moment and for always being by my side.” Similarly, Shawn shared, “Today is our 1st Anniversary & since we beat the odds, we are headed to Las Vegas to see if we can keep winning!”
Do you think Shawn and Alliya have split? Sound off in the comments below.




