Are ‘Dancing With the Stars’ Couple Emma Slater & Alan Bersten Still Together?

Alan Bersten and Emma Slater attend Disney's Mickey & Friends House of Mouse at NYA WEST on June 05, 2025
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Emma Slater found love in the ballroom when she started dating fellow dancer Sasha Farber in 2011. After a brief breakup, the two tied the knot in 2018, but the marriage was short lived. They split in 2022, finalizing their divorce in May 2024. Just months later, she was linked to fellow Dancing With the Stars pro Alan Bersten.

Although the two kept their romance low-key for several months, they went public earlier this year by kissing on stage during the Dancing With the Stars tour. Slater and Bersten both returned as pros for the show’s 34th season in September (Bersten’s paired with Elaine Hendrix, and Slater is with Andy Richter), but have they been able to make their love last while mixing it with their professional lives?

Scroll down for the latest updates on Slater and Bersten’s relationship.

Are Emma Slater and Alan Bersten still together?

Yes, Slater and Bersten are still together. Like many other DWTS pro couples, they’ve managed to not let some friendly competition get in the way of their relationship.

Not only have they been cheering one another on in the ballroom, but Bersten posted a social media video in October where he referred to Slater as his “girlfriend.”

Of their decision to go public after months of keeping the romance under wraps, Bersten previously told Swooon, “We just decided to live our lives. I think you only get one life, live it.” Slater recalled that Bersten was the one to initiate their first public kiss, adding, “I kind of just was there and went along with it. Afterwards, a lot of people made noise in the audience, and I was like ‘Well, that just happened.'”

The two also have all of Farber’s support. “I’m really happy for [Emma] and Alan. I wish them nothing but the best. That’s all I can say,” he revealed in a recent TikTok.

What is the age difference between Emma Slater and Alan Bersten?

Slater was born on December 25, 1988, while Bersten was born on May 26, 1994, so they have more than a five-year age difference.

Why did Emma Slater and Sasha Farber split?

Slater previously revealed that different timelines for having kids was the main reason her marriage to Farber didn’t work out. “It’s interesting because I do want to have kids, I just don’t want to delay Sasha’s path in having kids because I know that he is ready for that,” Slater explained on The Viall Files podcast. “I don’t want to talk about him too much because that’s really for him to say, but it’s about kids.”

Following her split from Farber, Slater froze her eggs while she took time to figure out what she wants from her future. “[Sasha’s] always been very much himself,” she added. “It’s me that’s found it difficult to understand why I’m feeling different.”