Who Is ’90 Day Fiancé’ Star Lisa’s Ex-Wife? Shirley’s Claims About Their Relationship
What To Know
- Lisa and Daniel got engaged on Season 8 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days.
- She revealed to Daniel that she is divorcing her ex-wife, marking her fifth marriage and divorce.
- Shirley recently discussed their tumultuous marriage and breakup on a TikTok live stream.
90 Day Fiancé star Lisa Rosenberger has finally come clean to her fiancé, Daniel Ejike Iwela, spilling that she is not only still legally married but is actively divorcing a woman. Now, we’re taking a deep dive into Lisa’s fifth marriage and divorce from her ex-wife, Shirley. Plus, all of the claims Shirley has made about their messy relationship.
On Episode 13 of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days Season 8, Lisa told Daniel, “So, my last marriage wasn’t with a man. I’m divorcing a woman, Daniel, and I’ve been with more than one woman. You’re the first man that I’ve been with in 21 years.”
So, who is Lisa’s most recent ex-wife, Shirley? Has their divorce been finalized since filming? We’re breaking down all that and more below.
Who is Lisa’s ex-wife on Before the 90 Days?
While Lisa did not reveal her ex’s identity on Before the 90 Days, her ex-wife, a chef named Shirley, has come out to speak about their relationship. On February 8, Shirley went on a TikTok live stream with CutToTheDrama, revealing that they were legally married for 10 years, and together off-and-on for seven years. According to Shirley, within those seven years, Lisa married and divorced a woman named Laura.
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How did Lisa and Shirley meet?
On the TikTok live stream, Shirley revealed that she met Lisa online after Lisa emailed her “out of the blue.” Soon after, they met in person. According to Shirley, Lisa was married to her third ex-husband, Michael, which Shirley did not know until months into their relationship.
Why did Lisa and Shirley break up?
Shirley told CutToTheDrama that she and Lisa broke up because they were “not good together.” She claims that the final straw in the relationship was when she bought Lisa tickets to see P!nk with her daughter, Faith, and Lisa went to the concert with another woman instead. According to Shirley, “[Lisa] knows how to manipulate and talk to people.” However, Shirley admitted, “I wasn’t the best partner either. Don’t get me wrong, I was not a good partner to her. We weren’t good together. That’s why we are no longer together, and we are no longer married.”
While Lisa has claimed that Shirley cheated on her, Shirley denied these claims. Both Lisa and Shirley have also claimed that the other was “violent.” At the time of the live stream, Shirley confirmed that she had not seen Lisa for nine years.
Have Lisa and Shirley officially divorced?
Yes, Shirley confirmed that after 10 years, she and Lisa have finalized their divorce. Their split was made official on December 30, 2025. According to Shirley, the divorce process took extra time because she had a stroke. She explained, “I did not know that this whole thing in Nigeria was going on with Daniel.”
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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days, Season 8, Sundays at 8/7c, TLC
