‘Age of Attraction’: Are Derrick & Pfeifer Still Together After Her Reunion Absence?
What To Know
- Derrick Fleming and Pfeifer Hill formed a strong connection on Netflix’s Age of Attraction.
- The two share a 20-year age gap.
- Pfeifer was notably absent from the Season 1 reunion.
If you’ve ever thought you’ve sacrificed a lot for a relationship, try moving across the country for a man you just met on reality TV. During the Age of Attraction Season 1 reunion, Pfeifer Hill’s absence proved that uprooting your life for love isn’t always the answer.
During Season 1 of Netflix’s newest dating show, Age of Attraction, singles headed to a romantic retreat, ready to date across a wide range of ages — 22 to 60, to be exact! While some found connections within their usual age range, others found themselves in relationships with someone 15, 20, or even 30 years older/younger. Of course, this was the case for one of Part 2’s standout couples: Derrick Fleming and Pfeifer Hill. (Age of Attraction Season 1 reunion spoilers ahead!)
Now that the Season 1 reunion, which aired exclusively on The Viall Files, has come and gone, we’re breaking down everything you need to know about their relationship status, age gap, and more!
Are Derrick and Pfeifer still together?
Pfeifer and Derrick are not still together today. Heading into the finale, the duo appeared to be still going strong. That being said, Pfeifer was incredibly active on social media throughout the season and appeared to still live in Seattle, raising questions about whether she moved to Dallas to be with Derrick. Now we know that her plan never came to fruition.
According to Derrick, they split nearly a month after filming because of the distance. It became clear that Pfeifer did not want to leave Seattle, and Derrick found out she still lived in what appeared to be a sorority house.
During Episodes 6 and 7, Pfeifer got candid about her apprehension about changing everything in her life for a man. She explained, “This whole time I’ve been telling myself, ‘I’m moving because I wanna move. I’m moving because I don’t wanna be…’ Which is true. I don’t want to be in Seattle. I don’t want to be there, but like, I’m moving to basically be with you. That is the truth of the matter.” Before the experiment, she had told herself that she would never change her life for a man, which has made her feel like she is “betraying” herself.
“I’m like giving up everything,” she told Derrick, “It’s not like you’re not. But, like, I am… Not only leaving everybody and everything I’ve worked for, but I’m also going against my own values to do that. Which is not to say that I’m not going to, or that it’s not going to be worth it. But sitting here, now, I’m like, ‘What the f**k am I doing?'”

Why wasn’t Pfeifer at the reunion?
According to Pfeifer, she decided to skip the Age of Attraction reunion on The Viall Files because she was on a trip to Japan with her new boyfriend. She also explained, “I always try to stay true to myself, even if that means doing things a little bit differently. I never want to speak on a podcast that doesn’t feel like an authentic choice or one that I’m not enthusiastic about.” Watch the video below for her full explanation!
@phillvtheworld someone queue my way by frank sinatra — i’d be lying if i said i haven’t had some fomo or questioned if i should’ve followed the status quo, but im proud of myself for making a decision i can confidently stand by. — thanks for everyone who’s watched, supported, and enjoyed this journey. more to come im sure :) #ageofattraction #realitytv #reunion #realitytvdrama #mystory ♬ Carmen Habanera, classical opera(1283412) – perfectpanda
How old are Derrick and Pfeifer?
In the promise room, Derrick started by revealing the ages of his sons, saying, “Dominic is 5 and Carter is 15.” He then revealed that he is 43, to which Pfeifer responded, “That’s older than I thought, but I don’t really… I don’t care at all.” She then told him she was 23 years old after he said he had assumed she was in her “mid-twenties.”
When did Derrick and Pfeifer start dating?
Derrick and Pfeifer committed to each other in the promise room during Episode 3. There, he told her, “So much aligns for us. Like, it’s been crazy. Like, literally from the jump, like we said, from our speed date, it just felt comfortable with us.” She explained, “Coming here, I never would have thought that I would have found a connection, a, like, great connection… being around some like you is, like, refreshing. It’s nice to be treated well, even if it’s someone you don’t know for very long.”
Age of Attraction, Season 1, Streaming Now, Netflix





