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‘The Other Bennet Sister’ Boss & Ella Bruccoleri Break Down Mary’s Ending (VIDEO)

The Other Bennet Sister finale sees Mary Bennet (Ella Bruccoleri) get a happy ending. Not only does she settle into her confidence and independence, but she also stands up to her mother (Ruth Jones) and gets a resolution with William Ryder (Laurie Davidson) before Tom Hayward (Dónal Finn) comes back into the picture and finally declares his love.

Series lead Ella Bruccoleri and showrunner-writer Sarah Quintrell broke down Episode 10 at TV Insider’s 2026 ATX TV festival studio in May, starting with what Mary’s going through after Hayward ghosted her. In Janice Hadlow’s novel of the same name, which the show adapts, Hayward’s absence from Mary’s life is even more prolonged, Bruccoleri said. It’s months that “she’s waiting, she has no communication with him whatsoever, and doesn’t know where he is, and cannot make the first move to communicate with him because that just wasn’t the done thing [in that time period].”

“So she’s just in No Man’s Land, like waiting for this guy to kind of reappear, and he might never reappear,” she continued. “That’s the kind of brutal thing…He may never come back.”

But Mary’s story doesn’t come to a halt just because Tom isn’t in it. First, she gets closure with Ryder, whom she hasn’t seen since he abandoned her on the mountain. To his credit, Ryder apologizes before launching into a marriage proposal — a real one this time. In fact, Quintrell said that they shot Ryder’s earlier semi-proposal and the real one about a day apart.

“We were like, ‘How do we make these two things feel different?’ Because they both felt like really bittersweet and really…” Bruccoleri said, with Quintrell adding, “And heartbreaking for Laurie. But I think what he found so beautifully in that scene was he played that sense of real heartbreak, but a respect that Mary Bennet had grown.”

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On writing the scene, Quintrell said, “There was a feeling I wanted to give the audience, the feeling that she could well say yes. It’s a fantastic offer, and at any other point in the story she would have said yes, and that’s really shows Mary’s growth, that this is the moment where she says, ‘I don’t love you,’ and it’s typically a Mary response, just absolutely from the gut, from the heart, just a really, really honest response to him.”

In her rejection, Mary explains that she’s learned things from Ryder. “In that scene… She just wants him to feel, I think, in classic Mary fashion, she just wants him to feel OK,” Bruccoleri said. “Yeah, I think Mary has that quite a lot, doesn’t she? She’s just kind of always trying to read the person that she’s opposite, and just trying to make sure that they’re doing okay.”

“She offers people the kindness she’s never received,” Quintrell added. “It’s really important for me in that scene, actually, that Mary acknowledged what she got from Ryder because we didn’t play that as a love triangle for the sake of kind of titillating the audience. We played it genuinely, that all of these — Mr. Sparrow, Mr. Collins, they all really brought something to Mary, and Ryder taught Mary to laugh out loud, even if she’s been told not to, to enjoy the literature she enjoys, to be the person she is. He’s a huge part of that journey.”

Speaking of Mary’s concern for others, the moment she sees Mr. Sparrow again in London is an important moment for her. “I’m sort of harking back to Janice’s book, but in the book, Mary doesn’t let go of the incident with Mr. Sparrow for the whole journey,” Bruccoleri explained. “She felt such a huge amount of guilt over the rejection that she just kind of hangs on to it, and I tried to keep that in Mary’s journey throughout the whole thing.”

Quintrell said that Mary wants to show kindness to people, but with Sparrow, she couldn’t be true to herself and had to follow her mother’s wishes. When she finds out Sparrow is thriving in London — he’s a doctor and has a family — “it’s like this weight just kind of drops away off her shoulders, because it’s like, ‘OK I didn’t ruin his life, he’s happy, and it’s a kind of full circle moment,'” Bruccoleri noted.

A confident (and single) Mary then takes her fate into her own hands and finds her place as a governess. “For her to then reach inside and feel like she’s able to get all of that from herself, and obviously she has a huge amount of help from the Gardiners, they shepherd her on that journey, but she arrives in this place where she’s just like, ‘I’m content within myself, I know that I’m… What’s the line in the voiceover, which is like, ‘I know that I am good enough.'”

Bruccoleri said, “You have to believe in that moment that if Hayward doesn’t come back, that she’ll be okay.”

But Tom does come to his senses, finding Mary in the park. As Bruccoleri pointed out, you might initially assume that they’re going to run into each other’s embrace, since the last time they spoke was on the summit of the mountain, when Tom was about to propose to her. Instead, Mary lets him know how angry she is about his disappearing act, socking him in the shoulder.

“Ep[isode] 10, honestly, when I was writing, it sort of came up and out,” Quintrell said. “When I got to that scene, I was so stunned by how angry she was. It was coming out of me, and I was like, ‘Oh, she’s really angry…’ I was like, ‘Oh, wow.’ She just kind of came out of me really angry, because in that argument up the mountain, and also, since then, she’s found out that he was going to decide her fate with Mr. Ryder. The stupidity that none of this pain needed to be caused. The punching just felt like she just needed to get it out.”

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Bruccoleri joked that her scene partner should’ve had padding. “He’d be like, ‘Just hit me’… But we didn’t do it many times. I think we did it like twice, so he wasn’t like, bruised,” she explained with a laugh. “We were both just quite in it, and we kind of just went for a little bit.”

She added, “I think it’s the way [Hayward] responds to that is quite telling of what their relationship is probably going to be like in the future, I think, isn’t it? Because he’s kind of just like, ‘Ah.’ He’s a bit stunned, but he’s not outraged that this woman is hitting him in public in the middle of the park.”

In the final moments of Season 1, we get a glimpse of Mary and Tom together as newlyweds, and the former has just completed her first novel, Advice for a Young Woman. The most central piece of advice she thinks Mary would give, Bruccoleri revealed, is “to shut out the noise” and not be afraid to demonstrate one’s intelligence.

“I think the whole thing about Mary becoming a governess to young women and teaching them kind of these specialist subjects that don’t get taught to women often is about [wanting to] equip these women with huge knowledge and intelligence, and I also want to teach them not to hide it, to go out there and express it,” she explained.

Quintrell said that Mary’s book was about giving a woman a voice, which was uncommon in the era. “We deliberately didn’t have it printed in a book or anything,” she said. “It’s just the fact that she’d written it down, and for me, part of that was marking that, when we first meet Mary, she studies Fordyce’s Sermons For Young Women… You can get three pages in before you want to throw it out the window because it’s so anger-inducing that after dinner, women would listen to these sermons on how they should behave.”

“And then at the end, really, I wanted that book on that table to show that I trust my own voice now,” the showrunner added. “It’s sort of marking that journey of her learning to trust herself.”

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Mary gets that confidence in part from the kindness the women in her life show her, Quintrell said — barring her mother, of course. “One of the things that first drew me to this story is that it’s a story about kindness and the enormous, life-changing impact kindness has on a young woman’s life, and it comes from Hill, at the beginning, and then from Mrs. Gardiner.”

She described Mrs. Gardiner as a shepherd. “We can create the world that we want to live in by just taking a second before we judge absent-mindedly what someone’s wearing or how they carry themselves,” Quintrell said. “That we just stop and offer that generosity because culturally we just quickly judge, don’t we? We quickly give opinions on, and I think, as women, we could really be conscious of starting that process ourselves, of creating the world we want to live in.”

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